Constant comparison can quietly erode joy, feeling behind, not enough, or distant from your own life.

Here, I share simple, nature-inspired rituals and reflective practices to help you step out of the comparison loop, reconnect with your own rhythm, and nurture a kinder, more grounded relationship with yourself.

Christian writing quietly, reflecting on comparison, self-doubt, and the small steps that helped him return to his own rhythm.
A Personal Story About Comparison & Self-Worth

Why We Feel Out of Sync with Our Own Life — and How I Began to Find My Way Back

There were times when comparing myself to others quietly eroded my joy, feeling behind, not enough, or out of step with my own path.

In this personal article, I share how those feelings showed up in my life, the simple gestures that helped me come back to myself, and how gentle rituals slowly restored a sense of balance, presence, and inner grounding.

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Essential Oils for Jealousy & Comparison

My Gentle Way to Ease Jealousy with Essential Oils

Jealousy isn’t something I solve by reasoning, I first lower the inner alarm: short breath, tight chest, looping thoughts.

In this article, I share five essential oils that help me create that small, breathable pause: benzoin for gentle inner warmth, cardamom to bring me back to my own centre, rose to reopen the heart, ho wood to soften the harsh inner voice, and amyris to slow racing thoughts and return to the present moment.

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